RELATIONSHIP 101: Let's Talk 'CONTROL' in Relationships..... {Watch Case Study}

Let's start off by me admitting I'm still a student in this school of life, I don't know it all and no one knows it all but from my own personal experience let's learn......

A lot of Relationships and Marriages suffer today because of this phenomena called 'CONTROL'. A lot of people today have problems in/with their Relationships because people tend not to understand that CONTROL is a very core and critical aspect for any Successful or Failed Relationship...

Red Flags are always present very early in relationships whether it's Plain Friendship or a Sexual Relationships I've come to realise that these Red Flags always present themselves very early in Relationships even earlier than you think but they are often ignored because of that Euphoric feeling people tend to have when starting off a new relationship. 

VLOGGER Toke Makinwa shared the VLOG above sometime in February which she titled 'Your Male Bestie Now has a Babe' where she said if she found a new boyfriend she would Ride him on Bed and tell him to delete his female friends' Phone Number... I think that's a Big Red Flag.... From experience, in Relationships its those little things/issues that becomes the big things that spiral out of control till the relationship crashes!

Naturally no one in a relationship likes to be told what to do, if you choose to be with someone, I think you should trust them enough to make their own decisions, if women don't like to be told what to in a Relationship, my question is why should it be acceptable for a woman to use Sex as a tool to make a man a Remote Control??

Till next time on Relationships 101, stay blessed dear MEB Viewers ~ MICHAEL EHINDERO